Hoodrh

In the winter of the northern hemisphere, starting from the circle of friends, the snow falls heavily in the northwest, northeast, and Inner Mongolia. Now, the snow line and low temperatures are moving south towards the border. In this season of low temperatures, we are always particularly infatuated with warm people and things, and we miss the warmth we have experienced.

Since the beginning of winter, there has been a special attachment to warm things. When passing by a shop with warm lights, you may want to go in and stay for a while. When watching a heartwarming movie, you may feel a sense of happiness. Especially, you miss friends you haven't seen for a long time. I think you are the same. You become more sensitive in winter. Is this a special case for one or two people, or is it a common occurrence?

Let's start from here and see what has happened in the process of human evolution in terms of physiology and psychology, so that we are so fascinated by warm people and things in winter. We will start with the influence of the living environment, then explore the influence of physiology and living conditions, and finally understand how the culture formed in the long process of evolution affects people's perception of warmth. Let's embark on a journey to understand ourselves better in winter.

1. Environment - Survival Journey in the Cold#

In winter, the impact of low temperatures is comprehensive. Plants wither, and animals cannot find enough food. At the same time, low temperatures take away the heat from the bodies of animals. In order to survive, our ancestors had to keep themselves warm, so they had to do two things: eat food with calories and find warm environments.

1. Food is the greatest temptation#

On snowy days, when passing by a bakery, most people can't help but go in, right? Children have a great passion for cakes and candies. The reason is that in the process of human evolution, foods that provide high energy helped humans survive. The attachment to high-calorie foods is engraved in our genes.

A cup of hot milk tea, hot coffee, or hot cocoa, held in your hand, taking a sip, wow, it's so blissful. Winter is the season to indulge in food!

2. Warm places bring a sense of security#

People entering the door, with white snowflakes on their shoulders, are traces of the winter elves dancing.

In the north, houses are always warm in winter. There is always condensation on the windows, the fire is burning brightly, and the crackling sound of matches burning can be faintly heard. Sometimes sitting in the house reading, from morning till afternoon, occasional activities include drinking water, adding firewood, and going to the bathroom. Time also retreats at such moments, without rushing.

We always become more infatuated with warm places in winter. Those warm places make us relax. The warmth of these places, conveyed by the ancient genes of humanity, conveys a sense of security, and our ancestors exclaimed, "We can survive this harsh winter again."

2. Physiology - The Choice of Seeking Benefits and Avoiding Harm#

Cold represents greater danger and survival difficulty. In the process of evolution, whenever winter comes, the body produces survival warning reactions. We have to search for warmer places and higher-calorie foods with anxiety and negative feelings. Only by finding them can humans better survive the winter and be rewarded by the body at that moment. The secretion of relevant hormones makes us feel calm and happy.

Our attachment to warm people and things in winter can be understood from a physiological perspective.

1. The secretion of attack-related hormones in the body decreases in low temperatures, making it easier for people to get along with each other and more conducive to gathering.

2. In winter, the daylight hours are short, and the body lacks vitamin D, which can easily lead to depression. At the same time, low temperatures can cause seasonal affective disorder (SAD) and other emotions. Warm experiences can greatly alleviate these negative emotions. The feelings and experiences related to warmth can activate the neural pathways in the brain associated with reward and satisfaction. The dopamine system in the brain may be activated when experiencing warmth and comfort, resulting in pleasure and satisfaction. This explains why people are infatuated with people and things that bring warmth in winter.

3. The cold weather in winter can trigger physiological reactions in the body, such as blood vessel constriction and muscle contraction, to maintain body temperature. These physiological reactions make people more eager for warm environments and objects because they help maintain stable body temperature and provide comfort.

3. Life - Pursuing Better Experiences#

Before modern life, the vast majority of people lived in rural areas, and their way of life determined their way of life. Winter is not busy with farming. Farmers stay at home, and herders stay in winter pastures. The long winter days are like long vacations, staying in warm houses, eating warm food, and then meeting friends who couldn't meet during busy times. What a warm and happy life!

1. In winter, people cannot go out, and most of the time they stay at home. They may feel lonely, and occasional gatherings with friends become precious and warm, making people feel relaxed and comfortable. When people who haven't seen each other for a long time gather together, taking care of each other and asking about each other's well-being, they can feel the beauty of life and the happiness of life.

2. Winter can provide a unique sense of comfort and relaxation. People can avoid the cold weather and curl up in warm blankets, enjoying the warm indoor environment. The sense of seclusion brings peace of mind that belongs to oneself, without the need to expend energy to meet the needs of others. It is a moment of life that belongs entirely to oneself.

3. Warm environments, intimate relationships, and friendly communication can stimulate emotional connections and intimacy among people. In winter, people often pursue this emotional connection because it can provide a sense of security, emotional satisfaction, and psychological support. This warm emotional connection has a positive impact on people's mental health and sense of happiness.

4. Culture - Shaping the Perception of Emotions#

In the process of human survival, various cultures have emerged out of exploration of the unknown, expectations for a more controllable living environment, commemoration of certain things, and attempts to establish order. Everything is for better survival.

In winter, we have a special attachment to warm things and people, which comes from our bodily sensations and also from our emotional cognition. In the process of growing up, we have been influenced by various cultural elements and images of winter. Every winter, we will especially miss those warm experiences and feelings.

1. Religion: In winter, people have more leisure time, and various religious activities are conducted in winter. People can gather from distant places, give and feel warmth to each other during the activities, and obtain spiritual stability and happiness conveyed by religious culture.

2. Winter provides plenty of time for activities such as markets, festivals, and gatherings. Since childhood, we have been taken by our family to participate in these lively activities. Even if we may not have the opportunity to participate in these activities as adults, every winter will evoke warm experiences and emotions.

3. In the cold, people gather with family members, friends, and community members, share food, take care of each other, exchange gifts, and share joy. These social interactions and celebrations create a warm emotional atmosphere, making people more infatuated with people, things, and events in winter.

In the northern city where I am, like Zhang Chu sings in "Sister", "It's still not snowing this winter," but the temperature is already very low. Walking on the street requires bundling up and braving the wind. In winter, we become particularly attached to warm people and things, and we also miss the people who have brought us warmth. In this article, we explore the possible reasons for being particularly infatuated with warm people and things in winter from the perspectives of evolution, living environment, physiological reactions, living conditions, and cultural influences. It may not be complete, but it is necessary and meaningful to explore ourselves from a more comprehensive perspective. Thank you for joining me on this journey.

The most wonderful thing in life is to meet wonderful people. Since winter, I have become particularly aware of the preciousness of friends and have met many people, including friends I haven't seen for months, brothers I haven't seen for half a year, and high school classmates I haven't seen for ten years. It is very fortunate to be able to meet all these warm people.

Of course, there is also you in the distance. I hope that in the near future, we can meet each other.

Reading List

 Books:
"The Gene of Creation" by Hideki Shima
"Robot Ethics" by Patrick Lin et al.
"Self-Observation"
"Black Mirror: China's 100 Years"
"Rain" by Huang Jinshu
"The King of Reggae" by Roger Steffens
"Twitter Machine" by Richard Seymour
"Rethinking Entrepreneurship" by Zhang Weiying
"Qian Yingyi Dialogue" by Qian Yingyi
"The Lost Blood Color Gift in the Sea Breeze" by Aristotle
"Walking in the Blue Field" by Jigen
"The Poetics of Space" by Gaston Bachelard
"All My Faults Are the Faults of Adults" by Jimmy Liao
"Writing Master Crash Course" by Shunzo Takemura

Courses:
"AI for Everyone" by Andrew Ng
"Cognitive Neuroscience" by Lan Hong
"Emotion and Decision-Making" by Lan Hong
"Generative AI for Everyone" by Andrew Ng

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